Tahun 2020 wajib pasang Car Seat! Tips nak beli Car Seat?

Kecoh kat fb sana sini kawan2 share isu pemasangan car seat next year.

Eh now nak dgr ke sharing mommy anak tiga ni? 😁

Eva’s carseat : Cosatto Zoomi 123

Selain sebab fancy design, 3years back mommy nak sgt Cosatto ni is bcos its Anti-Escape System. Once buckled up, Eva could not wriggle out of her car seat harnesses. Yay! Eva been using it since 1y plus and this Zoomi is ready to serve up until Eva turns 12 years approx! Berbaloi-baloi kan? 😍

Whilst Ean’s is given by his aunty. Thank you so much cik Eliz 🥰

Next baby Ejaz’s carseat : Snapkis RevolveFix. (Boleh cari di #mommyejshare kalau nak view penuh car seat ni) Since birth and inshAllah til 4years old, this would be a great travel companion for baby Ejaz. Its 360 rotation (easy for mommy or daddy to put him in), Isofix for both rear and forward facing and designed with Side-impact Protection System.

So dari 3 car seat anak2 mommy ni, nampak kan each and every carseat di designkan mengikut umur. Newborn baby of course need a teddy bear-like car seat to make em feel extra comfy.

While for tots, they need car seat which suit with their height and weight.

Above all, u know ape lagi yg mommy anak tiga ni concern?—- Our car 😆

Kami ni biasa weekend jalan2 bawak neny and atok EJs sekali. But we have no plan to change to a 7 seater car yet. Big car comes with big money meh. Plus it will be funny for a petite mother like me to drive a big van. Mesti nmpk mcm a dwarf keluar dari ice box 😂 (ok I exaggerate 🤭)

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Dalam gambar ni nampak memang macam sardin skit la. Takpe anak2, janji buckle up. Benda baik kite amalkan. Bukan janji pasti zero accident bila duduk car seat ni, tapi dapat kurangkan kesan dan akibat, tu lebih dari memadai. Mommy sanggup kiv wishlist mommy janji dapat sediakan semua ni utk korang.

Bila baca segelitir luahan, bukan saje isu nak sediakan car seat, tapi jumlah anak dan kereta yg dipandu pon dh satu hal. Pasni korg jgn tanye bila Ejaz nk dapat adik lagi, sebab alasan mommy cud be “mana nak muat kereta lagi weyh!”

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Semoga parents kt luar sana dipermudahkan urusan menghadapi isu ni ye 😉

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#buckleup #carseatsafety #carseat2020

Friso Gold’s Growing Up Together, Naturally Campaign

June 18th, 2019

How is it start?

Many thanks to @frisomumgoldmy for sending this gift box to EJs. We can’t wait to take up the challenges and share with others our journey on embracing natural parenting. So, stay tuned!



July 2nd, 2019

Challenge Activity 1- Mommy & Daughter’s First Pledge to spend more quality bonding time!

A few small changes to our routine can make a big difference to our kids when it comes to getting more time together as a family, especially when mommy and daddy both work!



Hence we are pledging to maximize the amount of time we have with each other! Yass to spend more quality bonding time!



From now on-you take the lead, you are the boss! 🥰 



July 11th, 2019

Challenge Activity- Story-telling Game (Eva’s favorite’s animal)

Today I let Eva feed the fish. Suddenly Eva start telling me that she wants to be a mermaid. When I ask why, she became even more excited to share with me—



She loves fish so much that is why she wants to be a mermaid; to swim with many fishes as well as the sharks but she said only baby sharks allowed. 😅 Next she said she can be a good friend to the fishes in the sea because of her mermaid’s hair just like Ariel 😂 okay I got you Eva! #sillymoments



Well I love her cute and creative imaginations to be whatever she wants to be. Although she can’t become a mermaid, she encouraged me to dream big and with the power of believing, you can be whatever you wish to be! Wow! I’m so inspired by you Eva! And thank you for let me getting to know you a little better today! 😍



Hey how about you mommies? Do you know what is your kid’s favorite animal? Do spend time with your kids by taking photo of them with their favorite animal and let them express their feelings too! You’d be surprised! 😉



August 6th, 2019

Challenge Activity- Lets Make Pancake!

Pancakes is the first thing that me and my first born Eva Jennaira got to cook together.



She start with fetching the ingredients, pouring flour into the bowl and cup of water, sifting and stirring, then learn to measuring and cracking eggs, next she learnt how to cook the pancake.



Through this morning, however, the one who has learnt the most is me! —The time, the mess, the patience, the creativity, the mistake, the imperfection and the success.



She makes me think that as a mother, I should let her be unstructured, steering her away from perfectionism, nurturing her independence, creativity and self-esteem so she is free to explore! 😍



Mom is not just a teacher but to facilitate and to encourage children.



So mommies, let’s make memories together with your kid, to have fun and messy moments, the kind that lasts a lifetime. Let’s create “cooking with mom” memories! 🥞



September 4th, 2019

Challenge Activity- Playdough Island

I found Eva really into the beach. That’s why she can watch Moana movie again and again because she always want to go to an island. Must be mommy’s gene lah, another beach bum in training! 🏝👙

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So since we had long weekend, I brought her to the nearest park for another Friso Gold challenge activity. This time I let her discover and explore the outdoors by making her dream island that she would like to visit one day. But this time, let’s make it with play dough first and she can decorate the island using things she found at the park.



Eva was so excited to make her own island. She ran giggly to the tree, collecting twigs, stones and leaves. I let her to be creative and unstructured. It’s the joy that counts, no rules, no goals. Even I know her island looks more like cekodok instead 🤪



She even makes mommy realised that being dirty is delightful. Hands dirty, hair messy, eyes sparkly! Look at her bright smile! 🤩



To all mommies, let’s do this often! Plan an outdoor activity and allow your kid to be creative and share with us the fun you got to experience with your kid!



October 16th, 2019

Challenge Activity- Cardboard City

Do you ever cross in your mind, to turn those unused shoes, toys or even home appliances boxes to fun project with your kids? 📦



Me and Eva been doing Friso Gold challenge activity and this is the last one— Cardboard City!



Eva is still fascinated with her dream island. So instead of making a city, she made Elsa go on a summer vacation on a private Island! 😍



Look how she interacts with Elsa while exploring the island she made. She was so excited to bring the Ice Princess to the beach and to sun bathe! She said Elsa might melt and drown in the sea. Olaf will come to rescue! ⛄️



Suddenly she said, Olaf can not save Elsa because he might be melted as well as Olaf is a snowman! Ice and water mixed together! 💦



Her spontaneous imaginations allow me to enter her fantasy world and understand her better through her expressions. This activity also builds creativity and stimulate imaginative play to Eva. I’m so flattered! 😍



To all mommies, let’s do this often! Plan an activity and allow your kid to be creative and share with us the fun you got to experience with your kid! I really hope that I’ll be able to keep practicing natural parenting with my kids.



Log on to Friso Gold website to try out some of the challenge activities and watch tue videos:



https://www.frisogold.com.my/toddler/campaign/about-natural-parenting-snow



#FrisoGoldMY

#naturalparenting

#GrowingUpTogetherNaturally

#MumsGrowToo

Anak Prolonged Jaundice

7 August 2018

Told ya my son is a superhero in training. 3rd months in a row blood test for LFT and AST and today cry no more 🤗 I love you Ean! 💛

No worries mommies, Ean doing well as seen on this video. No screaming no melalak. Because what? Because all of em did a great job. They are such a pro! Blood taking procedure went very well. Kudos 🙏🏻to em.

Yes I’m such a cold heart mother. I have to. And every mother will do the same asalkan anak lekas sembuh. Please, just doakan Ean baik2 je okay? 😚 #mommyEJshare  

Simptom Anak Dijangkiti Influenza B

16 Januari 2019

Ramai tanye mommy pasal keadaan dedobot EJ ni. Ada juga yg minta mommy share simptom2 sebelum dedobot ni confirm positif Influenza B.

Well, it started with Eva. Since last Thursday dia tiba2 demam. Perkara paling mommy daddy tak nak is Eva sakit sbb dia terpaling susah nk bg makan ubat. Since born pon, sekali la Eva warded last year due to viral fever smpai dehydrated. And dia masih trauma even lalu Avisena tu pon die xmau pandang 🤣

Tp demam Eva kebah on Saturday (day 3) so kami xbwk la pi clinic sbb bg stock PCM n Aerius dr Avisena. Ahad pon Eva sihat je n aktif mcm biasa. But suddenly, at 4am Monday tu both EJ bangun menangis. Ingtkn nak susu je, tapi serentak pulak menangis beriya. Bila each of us hold em, baru tau both demam—panas sgt!

Mommy letak kain basah kt Eva n masukkn ubat punggung. Ean we give PCM syrup dulu. Tp kami still pergi kerja n hantar diorg ke neny n BS. Sbb we thought Ean demam sbb teething—gigi ke 7&8 nk keluar 😅

Sampai ke ptg, masing2 punya “daily report” sgt tidak memuaskan. Both still demam even dh bg PCM kan. Eva lg la ubat punggung. So blk keja kami decide utk amek blood test. Risau denggi ke ape. Tp rupanya clinic kata both 39.5 demam tinggi da. They proceed to influenza test sbb utk aritu je ada 15kids yg dtg clinic positif influenza.

So ni la test nya. They will take mucus sample. Tak sakit, tp mmg tak selesa sbb ada benda dijolok masuk lubang hidung kita kan. Mommy pon buat test tu td sbb dh contact dgn dedobot kan. Mommy yg tua pon berlinang air mata, lagikan kids ni. Nanti mommy share what I did to prevent from infected. Penting! Sbb im pregnant!

For those yg ada kids demam panas tiba2, lemah dan sgt2 x bermaya, batuk or selesema meleleh sentiasa, better rush to clinic la. Biar kita tau punca awal, boleh elak mudarat. And if your kid is infected, pls pls do the quarantine. Penyakit berjangkit ni perlukan kerjasama & sensitivity semua pihak. Dont be selfish pls parents 🙏🏻 #mommyejshare 

Anak dua perlu dua stroller? Alamak!

Going shopping with a toddler, a preschooler and at the same time carrying 8months belly is no longer a chaos coz now we have @koopersmalaysia Co-Rider! 🥰

Well, we spent so much time at the mall instead of being a homebody during the weekend. Yass! We both went for work 7-5 for 5days so weekend is totally for our kids 👩‍👩‍👧‍👦 But there are always a moment when we have to deal with Eva’s fussiness (usually when she feel sleepy) while calming a manja boy Ean who wont let us put him down. Thats where this real mom in a real life solutions come in! 🤗

So I decided to have this @koopersmalaysia Co-Rider for em! Well, they must learn to take turns too! 😉 On this video, Eva is fall asleep while Ean enjoying his new ride and seat still for hours! 🥰 Mommy can shop til drop kauuuu 💃🏻

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@koopersmalaysia Co-Rider comes with 2 interchangeable seat cushions with or without backrest, 5 point harness, stroller connector (compatible for all) and a travel bag! Cool and sleek! 😍 and yes, you can handle both at once alone! Tadehal lah kalau daddy ngelat g smoking jap! 🤗

Get this must have baby gear @koopersmalaysia Co-Rider at RM399 only (PROMO price) at nearest baby store parents! 😍

Stroller : @koopersmalaysia Automi

#koopers #koopersmalaysia #kooperscorider #convertiblerider

#mommyejshare #motherhood #parentingmemes #parentingbloggermalaysia 

Berpantang di Confinement Centre ni membazir, sekadar ikutan atau hadiah suami kepada isteri?

Berpantang itu luxury malah membebankan (badan & poket)? Well, let me clear this things out. Bacalah dgn berlapang dada

Setiap kali berpantang ketiga2 anak, setiap tu jugak berbeza pengalamannya. Mommy sesuaikn amalan pantang tu ikut keadaan mommy masa tu dan penerimaan baby.

Keadaan mommy? Means tahap kesihatan mommy lps bersalin. Mcm masa Eva, being a first time mother, dgn ilmu kurang, I’ve done almost everything according to what hv been told during pantang; wearing socks, mkn makanan rebus only, no aircond yada yada. I even joined bf group to gain as much info as I can for my bf journey. I even pantang 100days no ice 🤪

Bila masa Ean, dgn isu prolonged jaundice sampai kena amek Liver Function Test, ulang alik KPJ and PPUM, pantang mommy pon entah ke mana. So mommy try to adjust my pantang dgn keadaan mommy ke sana kemari n penerimaan baby. Rasanya I can only complete my urut & tungku je. Lps tu g blk hospital dgn berbengkung. Thats it!

Penerimaan baby? Means mommy makan everything excepts food yg bila makan n then bf baby jd kembung. Masa Eva—i have to avoid mee kuning. While Ean—i practically eat everything because he can tolerate totally everything. Thank God!

During Ean, mommy takde istilah “buat badan” semula. No jamu taken to make sure Ean get his normal LFT reading again. I have to make sure dia dpt cukup nutrisi.

But surprisingly, I get my before-married-weight masa Ean 6mo tau. Ni yg kisah tak pantang betul ni haa hasil dia. 🤪

And this 3rd pregnancy come. Because its back to back pregnancies, my husband agree to send me to @casabonda.confinement 😚

Untuk ape tau? Untuk mommy ni berehat. Thats it! Rehat betul2 selepas melahirkan. Husband kite bukan nak paham pon makanan ape boleh n xboleh makan. Dia nak tau kite sihat dan rehat.

Spa, mandi herba, tungku, bertangas, mandi bunga, param, pilis, tepel semua tu untuk manjakan diri si isteri. Untuk isteri relaks. Ada orang buat utk isteri. Dilayan bagai puteri. Bila cukup rehat, mesti lg cepat sihat.

Makanan sedia terhidang, baby ada midwife tolong jagakn especially bila ada situation yg kite xtau sebab baby nangis midwife sedia bantu. What else a mother could ask for?

Dan bukanlah bermaksud mommy suka keadaan mcm ni sbb mommy x sayang anak, xnak urus anak sendiri. Tak. Tapi sesekali dibantu, tak salah kan nak rasa pengalaman sebegitu?

Ape yg penting, setiap ibu yg melahirkan penting untuk TIDAK STRESS. Cara bagaimana nak pastikan ibu tak stress tu terpulang pd cara masing2.

Jangan nampak to go to confinement center or to hire confinement lady ni beban dan paling sedih ada yg kata ianya cuma ikutan nak tunjuk lifestyle n only for instagram worth. Haihh 😅

Kalau ikutkan diri, mau mommy stick to first our plan, to stay for 7days tau. Tapi demi anak2 lain yg xde penjaga selama mommy kt sana, mommy singkatkan jadi 3H2M. Cukuplah untuk berehat. Cukuplah bila daddy dtg jemput dia tanye “cukup rehat b? Dh sihat b?” Mommy mampu tersenyum kucing ala-ala kena ngurat dulu. 🥰 

Pengalaman Berpantang di Casabonda - Part 2

7 Julai 2019

So tamatlah retreat pakej 3H2M Deluxe mommy & baby Ejaz di @casabonda.confinement

Terima kasih pada semua yg jaga mommy & Ejaz sepanjang kami di sana—Manager Hanim, Midwife, Therapist, staff semualah!

Thank you a million times over for your hospitality.

My hand is writing this message because the bottom of my heart cannot hold a pen. 😁I’m very much grateful, from the bottom of my heart.

So pada yg nak rasa sendiri pengalaman berpantang ala vacation and retreat, tp dlm masa yg sama mengekalkan amalan tradisional seperti berbengkung, bertangas dan mandi herba, ayuhh plan your confinement period and book your package at @casabonda.confinement 😍 yg tak mengandung pon xpe, boleh juga amek pakej spa yg ditawarkan!

#mommyejshare #casabonda #casabondaconfinement #motherhood #berpantang #berpantangsendiri #makananberpantang #urutanpantang #pantangbersalin