We could all do without the day we find out someone has been spreading rumors about us or even worse someone has made us feel damn hurt… When these things happen, it’s natural to be angry and hurt. I do… Hmm.. When the hurt is fresh, I vow that I’ll never forgive the person who made me upset. But after some time has passed and I’ve had the opportunity to talk it out or let the intensity of the pain subside, it’s time to think about forgiving.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are saying the behavior that hurt you was okay! Some actions are unforgivable, but most aren’t… Well, I was like holding a grudge, clinging to the hurt and pain… Then will just make me feel worse. Now I realized, once I have forgiven, there is space inside my heart to feel more joy, happiness and love…………!!
Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are saying the behavior that hurt you was okay! Some actions are unforgivable, but most aren’t… Well, I was like holding a grudge, clinging to the hurt and pain… Then will just make me feel worse. Now I realized, once I have forgiven, there is space inside my heart to feel more joy, happiness and love…………!!