Berpantang di Confinement Centre ni membazir, sekadar ikutan atau hadiah suami kepada isteri?

Berpantang itu luxury malah membebankan (badan & poket)? Well, let me clear this things out. Bacalah dgn berlapang dada

Setiap kali berpantang ketiga2 anak, setiap tu jugak berbeza pengalamannya. Mommy sesuaikn amalan pantang tu ikut keadaan mommy masa tu dan penerimaan baby.

Keadaan mommy? Means tahap kesihatan mommy lps bersalin. Mcm masa Eva, being a first time mother, dgn ilmu kurang, I’ve done almost everything according to what hv been told during pantang; wearing socks, mkn makanan rebus only, no aircond yada yada. I even joined bf group to gain as much info as I can for my bf journey. I even pantang 100days no ice 🤪

Bila masa Ean, dgn isu prolonged jaundice sampai kena amek Liver Function Test, ulang alik KPJ and PPUM, pantang mommy pon entah ke mana. So mommy try to adjust my pantang dgn keadaan mommy ke sana kemari n penerimaan baby. Rasanya I can only complete my urut & tungku je. Lps tu g blk hospital dgn berbengkung. Thats it!

Penerimaan baby? Means mommy makan everything excepts food yg bila makan n then bf baby jd kembung. Masa Eva—i have to avoid mee kuning. While Ean—i practically eat everything because he can tolerate totally everything. Thank God!

During Ean, mommy takde istilah “buat badan” semula. No jamu taken to make sure Ean get his normal LFT reading again. I have to make sure dia dpt cukup nutrisi.

But surprisingly, I get my before-married-weight masa Ean 6mo tau. Ni yg kisah tak pantang betul ni haa hasil dia. 🤪

And this 3rd pregnancy come. Because its back to back pregnancies, my husband agree to send me to @casabonda.confinement 😚

Untuk ape tau? Untuk mommy ni berehat. Thats it! Rehat betul2 selepas melahirkan. Husband kite bukan nak paham pon makanan ape boleh n xboleh makan. Dia nak tau kite sihat dan rehat.

Spa, mandi herba, tungku, bertangas, mandi bunga, param, pilis, tepel semua tu untuk manjakan diri si isteri. Untuk isteri relaks. Ada orang buat utk isteri. Dilayan bagai puteri. Bila cukup rehat, mesti lg cepat sihat.

Makanan sedia terhidang, baby ada midwife tolong jagakn especially bila ada situation yg kite xtau sebab baby nangis midwife sedia bantu. What else a mother could ask for?

Dan bukanlah bermaksud mommy suka keadaan mcm ni sbb mommy x sayang anak, xnak urus anak sendiri. Tak. Tapi sesekali dibantu, tak salah kan nak rasa pengalaman sebegitu?

Ape yg penting, setiap ibu yg melahirkan penting untuk TIDAK STRESS. Cara bagaimana nak pastikan ibu tak stress tu terpulang pd cara masing2.

Jangan nampak to go to confinement center or to hire confinement lady ni beban dan paling sedih ada yg kata ianya cuma ikutan nak tunjuk lifestyle n only for instagram worth. Haihh 😅

Kalau ikutkan diri, mau mommy stick to first our plan, to stay for 7days tau. Tapi demi anak2 lain yg xde penjaga selama mommy kt sana, mommy singkatkan jadi 3H2M. Cukuplah untuk berehat. Cukuplah bila daddy dtg jemput dia tanye “cukup rehat b? Dh sihat b?” Mommy mampu tersenyum kucing ala-ala kena ngurat dulu. 🥰